Got members of my family married to Chavacano urbanites. Oldies have long suspected that the less-than-stable or rocky relationship has something to do with the ethnicity of their spouses. Chavacano urbanites are "sosyal", elitist and have this delusion of grandeur as Spaniard principalia and look on others as "indios". Are they right?
As it turns out there is a perfect (?) scientific explanation to their rocky relationship. while it has nothing to do with ethnicity, it may have bearing on one's elitist background. So no matter how many things she has, she wants more. According to a Utah study of 600 married couples, those with materialistic wives (35%) tend to be less than satisfied in their relationship.
One possible reason: the wife hassles her husband for more cash, regardless of their financial standing; and if she doesn't get what she wants, she thinks her husband failed.
Dr Jason Carroll, the study author, says there is no easy fix. However, he suggests the husband makes his wife aware of those who have less and we they have exactly.
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